A few weeks ago I wrote about someone named Herb, a 97-year-old man who introduced himself to me as I played this somber Chopin Prelude. He made a particular impact because, despite his physical limitations, he seemed genuinely satisfied and excited through listening to music and reading. Herb shared cherished memories and his treasured CD collection, and it dawned on me in that moment: art speaks to something deep within, cutting through barriers of resistance and distrust. It allows us to connect in a way that is fundamentally different from our typical day-to-day interactions with colleagues, friends and family. It opens something within us that begs to seek connection and share stories. And when we listen and engage, this changes us somehow.

As someone with chronic illness, I’m fascinated in imagining my physical state at 97. Will I pursue joy and connection like Herb, through daily routines and treasures? Do you think you will?

Through engaging with art, and the connection it inspires, can we enhance each other’s lives?

Today’s newsletter is to acknowledge Herb, as a type of memorial, since he passed away recently. In the same way that our loved-ones and ancestors live within, informing how we perceive and engage with the world, we can fold the story of others (like Herb, even though you never met him Reader) into our perception. Perhaps if we carry this within with intention (even for just a moment), it expands our capacity to seek connection.